Sunday, 01 February 2009

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  The dilemma

  I have been in a rather intense discussion in Chinese written form the past week. And I’m now exhausted to a point that (may sounds quite bizarre) I don’t want to type one single Chinese word any more, at least not in coming week. But the discussion was so heated that I’m still in this “expressing mode”, so here I am.

   

  I like Jason Mraz; one of the greatest artists still surviving in my opinion. I like his voice, his creativity, his eagerness to communicate with the audiences and his humanity. What a man. And this is his one of the best songs in the best clip:

   

  I’m Yours

   

   

  The title of this post is “The dilemma”, so let’s talk about the dilemma I’m facing.

   

  I have a friend, maybe a close friend who happens to be an opposite sex. So I think every girl has such type of friend; the type who you can talk to, who you like to bicker and banter with, who you like to hang out with, who you like him to fill up your time when you are in bus/ on the way back home/ simply feel bored and want to have some chitchat with (and the other way round), and most importantly or little unfortunately, the status between these 2 people is nothing more than “Friend”. Reason? You don’t know, and perhaps, no one knows.

   

  And then there is one day, you hear from this friend “I’m going to ask that fantastic girl to be my girlfriend.” You are shocked; a little bit, although you have expected the coming of this day. But you can’t help, thinking “It’s going to happen, in REAL.” Next moment, you can’t really describe completely the kinds of emotion running through your head. And then you find yourself trapped in a dilemma.

   

  You want your friend to be happy of course, and what’s the better way the girl who he has crush on like him back the same way as he does? So, part of you wants the happening of their relationship; he gets the girl he wants. Little evilly, another part of you is not looking forward the coming of that day, because you know something is approaching to the end.

   

  You won’t be able to talk to him as frequent as now, you can’t bicker and banter with him as much as now, you can’t hang out with him as free as now, when you are bored you can’t call him up to have some chitchat as simple as now, because he is your friend.

   

  There is an invisible line right there.

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